Growing Our Hearts by Loving Others
Love, at its core, is not simply a feeling—it is an action, a gift of self. It is easy to think of love in grand gestures, especially around Valentine’s Day, but the most profound love often begins in the quiet, unseen moments within our own homes.
Mother Teresa put it beautifully when she said, “It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. It is easier to give a cup of rice to relieve hunger than to relieve the loneliness and pain of someone unloved in our own home. Bring love into your home, for this is where our love for each other must start.”
True love is sacrificial—it calls us to give of ourselves even when it is inconvenient, even when we don’t feel like it. It means choosing patience when we are tired, offering a kind word when we are frustrated, and putting others before ourselves in the small, everyday moments. Love is not just about what we do but about how we do it—with generosity, tenderness, and a heart open to the needs of others.
When we cultivate this kind of love within our homes, something remarkable happens—our own hearts expand. Love that is freely given does not diminish us; it transforms us. The more we give, the more we are able to love. A home filled with sacrificial love becomes a place of warmth, peace, and security, where every member knows they are valued.
It’s up to us to make the people in our lives feel cherished every single day of the year, and it’s that constant atmosphere of thoughtfulness and care that makes special days like Valentine’s Day even more meaningful.
So as we celebrate and reflect on those close to us, let’s ask ourselves: How can we bring more love into our homes? Perhaps it’s through small daily acts of service, an extra moment of undivided attention, or a very intentional “I love you.” Whatever it may be, remember that love—real, selfless love—begins at home. And from there, it has the power to grow and change the world.
"Bring love into your home, for this is where our love for each other must start."
—St. Teresa of Calcutta
Loving Others Through Their Love Languages
Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to remind the people in our lives how much we love them—not just with heart-shaped chocolates, but in ways that truly speak to their hearts. The five love languages—words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, physical touch, and gifts—can help us make our love more personal and meaningful.
Here are some ideas on how to love others based on the love languages:
Words of Affirmation: Write heartfelt notes for your spouse and each of your children. Tell them something that you love about them or that makes them special. Stick them on the mirror, tuck them in lunchboxes, or send a surprise text.
Quality Time: Plan a cozy Valentine’s dinner at home or a fun family game night. Schedule some one-on-one time with your spouse as well- even if it can't be on Valentine's Day itself.
Acts of Service: Surprise a family member by taking care of one of their tasks or doing something extra for them. Some examples could be cleaning the kitchen, running an errand, or making their favorite meal.
Physical Touch: Give extra hugs, hold hands, or sit close during a movie- think small but intentional actions that bring you closer to your loved one.
Gifts: Purchase or make a thoughtful, small surprise for your loved one. Some examples could be a handwritten letter, a homemade treat, or a book you know they’d love.
Check out this articleto read more about love languages and ways you can connect with your loved ones!
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